So I am going to get cheesy on you all and give a shout out to my man! First let me start off by saying, I have had some major drama in my life regarding boyfriends. I am not talking shit about them, they were great people, at the same time, they had a lot of emotions they still needed to figure out and as i came to learn, so did I. After having these real crazy and dramatic relationships I realized the one common denominator, ME. Ouch! That hit home, when I finally looked at myself and what I was attracting and how I was contributing to a not so healthy relationship. I did a lot of work on myself and tried to make myself who i wanted to be. This is when I met Kevin. Although I was immediately attracted to him and we completely hit it off, it was not all roses and kisses. We were two very different people. Almost the whole first year we were together was figuring out if this would even work. One element we did have since day one, was our ability to communicate. I know this is cliche, but communication really is the key! We have finally met on common grounds and now we can't get enough of each other. I have never been so happy with someone. He is truly my best friend. This is the first relationship when we have been able to eliminate all that high school, immature, and hurtful habits. Now we aren't perfect, but I know we can overcome what ever comes our way.
I don't think Kevin has realized just how thankful i am for him (even though I try and express it). He doesn't know what i have been through, to the extent that i know and to be able to just be with someone and be confident and secure with the relationship is wonderful. Kevin is freakin hilarious (that is what won my heart) and he is kind and not too proud to show me how he feels. I have realized the only time I can really breath is when I am touching him or he is around me. We share this mutual feeling of love for one another and I am so thankful he is in my life.
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As you mention in your blog "communication really is the key" to have a good relationship. I feel happy for you that you have been able to find someone in which you feel happy. Sometimes we need to learn from our errors but those errors makes us more knoelegeable and open to new experiences. I wish you the best in your relation and I hope that every day the love that you two profess grow and grow and grow.
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